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Why I Ride Alone... and Sometimes Regret It. š¤
Freedomās got a dark side. Letās talk about it.
Why I Ride Alone⦠and Sometimes Regret It. š¤
PLUS: Freedomās got a dark side. Letās talk about it.


š“āā ļø Title: Alone on the blacktop⦠or just finally free? š£ļø
š¦ That one time the silence was louder than the pipes
I was somewhere outside of Sedona, red rock rising like teeth outta the Earth, just me, the road, and the sound of my V-twin echoing off the canyon walls. No comms. No playlists. No one riding my six. Felt like church ā until it didnāt. Somewhere around hour five, the thrill dipped and the thoughts got loud. Real loud. Thatās when I realized: solo rides donāt lie. They strip you bare, mentally and emotionally.


š§ Riding alone ain't for the faint of head
Letās get it straight ā solo rides are not just about skipping the group ride drama. Theyāre a full-throttle therapy session that donāt pull punches. You either come out healed⦠or haunted.

šŖ The helmet becomes your therapist
Thereās nowhere to hide when itās just you and the horizon. That helmet becomes a confession booth. You think youāre gonna focus on the ride? Nah. Your brainās gonna take a detour through every choice, every mistake, every damn ghost you thought youād outrun.
Ever noticed how your past shows up around mile 37?
Or how silence hits like a punch in the gut around sunset?
That little ache in your gut? Thatās unprocessed trauma, brother.
Yeah. Solo rides dig deep.

šŗ The freedomās real ā but so is the loneliness
Thereās a raw power in riding solo. You pick the route, the pace, the stops. Youāre the whole damn crew. No one to slow you down. No one to save you either.
And thatās the paradox ā you feel invincible and vulnerable all at once. You could break down and no one would know. You could get lost and realize the only voice you hear is your own.
That ain't always a bad thing⦠unless it is.


š ļø Pro tip: Pack your head like you pack your saddlebags š§°
If your mindās already a mess before the ride, donāt expect it to get better on the road. Solo rides amplify everything. They donāt fix it. You bring your demons with you ā they just get a better view of the scenery.
Pack this:
A clear head or a mission to clear it
A backup plan in case freedom turns into "WTF am I doing out here"
A reminder that it's okay to turn around if the road gets too dark

š Want the truth? Ask yourself this
Are you riding toward something⦠or running from it?
Let that one marinate at your next fuel stop.

š§ Your move, road warriorā¦
Tell me: whatās YOUR take on solo rides? Therapy? Escape? A little of both?
Or hell ā maybe youāve had that breakdown moment on mile 187 when the sun dipped and you realized you werenāt just chasing the sunset. You were trying to outrun the stuff inside.
Drop your story. Letās get real.
Ride Smart, Ride Strong,
Blake "Iron Sage" Rivers
P.S. If youāve never cried into your helmet on a solo ride⦠just wait. The road always collects.
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